EdTheLam - it sucks that you didn't have a good time in the cathouse, hopefully you'll give us another go soon and if you dod you'll see things aren't quite as "scary" as they once were. Yes there are just as many blokes with make-up on as their are girls, but that's just their way of letting loose and saying "sod it! who cares how daft I look, I'm out to have fun!" and other stuff like that. Try to reach beyond the outer apperience and you'll see that the majority - if not all - of them are not that different from yourself.
Music-wise, the top floor now plays almost every genre of music every night (thursday through sunday and any weeknights we have aftershows on), and we now have Sure Shot every sunday firing out old skool hip-hop, R&B and break-beat nonsense up at the spiderweb bar. Not to mention our latest weekly event, our Open Mic Night, every sunday from 9 AM - 1 AM (just added it to this site so you should be able to find more details on it within the next couple of days). Hopefully see you back in soon.