I have been to the club 4 times. Tips for a good night are as follows: 1)after entering the club you have one safe haven area before the girls will jump on you to sell their wares. This is the bar with one barman at the front as soon as you walk in. The girls cannot hassle you there, it's club rules. So stand there drinking for ten mins or so and they will shout and try and chat you up from 10 feet away but can't come over, and you can ascertain which ones you like the look of.2) When you're ready, enter the main room where 30 scantily clad women will be waiting. They get their money by 'private shows' for £20 to £1000 each. You cannot touch their bodies at all in a standard private show for £20, but can in the expensive ones, but no sex is allowed. They will hound the life out of you, so be prepared to say no thanks, many times until you find the one you want.3) However, the great thing about Spearmint Rhino compared to other lapdancing clubs is they will sit on your lap trying to chat you up for the private show,and this is better than the private show as there's proper body contact and they don't mind you putting your arms around them etc.4) Some of the women come across as desperate, and will be almost aggressive in talking you into a private show. They will also pull the stunt that after 30 seconds and the song changes, they say your dance has finished as it's 'one song'. If they do that, threaten to complain to the manager and they will give you a proper 3 minutes' worth. The english women are the best, chatty, friendly, less desperate and good value.